Alcohol Relapse and When Dishonesty is a Form of Enabling
It is worthy of note to point out something that family members who have been negatively affected by the alcoholism of another family member clearly do not realize. It appears that by shielding the alcohol dependent person with falsehoods and dishonesty to those outside the family, these well-intentioned family members have actually created a circumstance that makes it easier for the alcohol addicted individual to carry on and move forward with his or her damaging, destructive style of life.
To be sure, instead of helping the alcohol dependent person and themselves, these family members have in reality become enablers who have inadvertently helped deteriorate the alcohol dependent person’s drinking problem even more.
The Probability of a Relapse is Real
Another key alcohol dependency issue concerns alcohol relapses. Relapses take place when an alcohol dependent individual has successfully undergone alcoholism treatment and then returns to drinking a number of weeks or months later. At first thought, this situation seems contradictory to sound thinking and sounds so far-fetched that it forces one to wonder why anyone who has gone through the dejection of alcohol addiction can return to drinking a short while after successful alcohol treatment and in turn after achieving sobriety. There are, without a doubt, numerous possible reasons for this.
It should be noted, on the other hand that alcohol addiction research that has focused on the lasting effects of alcohol dependency has revealed that long after the alcohol addicted individual has terminated his or her drinking, major alterations in the way in which the alcohol addicted person’s brain functions are still present. As a result, all a recovering alcohol addicted individual has to do to involve himself or herself in actions that correspond with the alterations that have taken place in the brain is to engage in drinking once again.
A Requirement for A Significant Lifestyle Modification
There are other reasons why many recovering alcoholics return to drinking a few weeks or a few months after reaching sobriety. According to the alcoholism research literature, to make a successful recovery, the alcohol dependent individual needs new ways of responding and thinking in order to deal more successfully with taxing alcohol-related situations that will take place.
Issues such as returning to the same alcohol addictive atmosphere or to the same geographic location; interacting once again with friends from the days when the alcohol dependent person was drinking abusively; or familiar songs, smells, or activities—all of these circumstances can bring forth memories that can set off psychological anxiety or push hot buttons that influence the recovering alcohol addicted person to engage in abusive drinking once again. Regrettably, all of these situations may not only counteract long standing sobriety for the alcohol addicted person but they can also lead to relapse and thus short-circuit one’s alcohol recovery.
Summary
In an attempt to “protect” the family alcohol dependent individual, family members can essentially cause inadvertent destruction by enabling the negative drinking behavior of the alcohol dependent individual.
The substance abuse research literature highlights the fact that most individuals who successfully complete alcohol therapy experience at least one relapse. Alcohol addicted persons and their family members need to know this so that they do not get down in the dumps or beleaguered when a relapse manifests itself.
Luckily, participation in support groups such as Alcoholics Anonymous and follow-up counseling and education have resulted in more effective, long-term alcohol abuse and alcoholism therapeutic results, have helped reduce alcohol relapses, and have helped recovering alcohol dependent persons reach long standing sobriety.
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